A child’s adoption story is one of the most important aspects of their upbringing and can help foster a healthy relationship between a parent and their adopted child. Whether it’s through writing, reading, art, cooking, or family activities, sharing an adoption story can be a way to connect and educate families on the joys of adoption.
Every adoptee’s story is different. Some children want to maintain ties to their biological family; others may feel more drawn to their adopted family and culture. Still, many are searching for answers about where they came from and how they became part of a new world.
When children are ready to hear their adoption story, it’s important to present this information in a sensitive way. It’s best to start with current information about the child and move backwards from there. This helps them cope with difficult emotions and can reassure them that their adoptive parents love them no matter what.
It’s also important to note that it’s important to set boundaries with birth parents around what details should be shared publicly and on social media. With the rise of social media, photos and identifying information can be easily shared with a large audience. Adoption professionals and adoption advocates should be careful to weigh the pros and cons of sharing these details.